In this work, I ask questions about the details of cognitive vocabulary, the degree of honesty-Puritanism, and “border security” in the communication between the generations, a sense of its territory, “language barrier” as part of the same ethnic language of each generation rate personal world. Therefore, I always had a strong association with my older relatives in these knitted napkins at my grandma Zhenya’s house. This is something concrete and stable, that always remains unchanged. It’s like an unknown or forgotten language for me, that I can use to become a little closer to all of them, creating a new communication process, inventing new game rules.