In this work, I ask questions about the details of cognitive vocabulary, the degree of honesty-Puritanism, borders in the communication between the generations, a sense of its territory, and the language barrier as part of the same ethnic language of each generation rates personal world. Therefore, I always had a strong association with my older relatives in these knitted napkins at my grandma Zhenya’s house. This is something concrete and stable, that always remains unchanged. It’s like an unknown or forgotten language for me, that I can use to become a little closer to all of them, creating a new communication process, and inventing new game rules.